Looking for a love potion? People have sought legendary love potions for centuries. And although these mysterious concoctions typically don’t work, there may actually be merit to some. Aromas can work wonders upon the human mind and body when it comes to getting passionate. Essential oils can improve mood to increase attraction and also improve blood flow, therefore helping arousal. Read on for some essential oil blends for love.
Open Your Heart
The heart chakra is central and is the connection between the upper and lower three chakras. In this way, it physical, emotional, and spiritual bodies. When the heart chakra is open, we feel more connected and compassionate towards others. We also feel more peaceful and accepting of ourselves as well as others. In short, opening the heart chakra helps encourage love for yourself and others.
This essential oil blend helps to open the heart chakra to encourage self love and an openness in relationships. Apply this blend over your heart and inhale deeply as you focus on welcoming love into your life.

Ingredients
- 6 drops blue tansy
- 6 drops jasmine
- 4 drops Roman chamomile
- 4 drops spruce
- 3 drops myrrh
- 2 drops orange
- Rose quartz chips (optional)
- Carrier oil, such as fractionated coconut oil or sweet almond oil
Instructions
Combine essential oils in a 10 mL roller bottle. Add crystal chips if desired. Top off with a neutral carrier oil and affix the roller top. Swirl gently to combine.
Date Night
This blend combines soothing and relaxing essential oils with a bit of spice. Apply it before bedtime to create an open atmosphere!
Ingredients
- 10 drops sandalwood
- 4 drops rosemary
- 3 drops cinnamon bark
- 3 drops ylang ylang
- 2 drops patchouli
- Garnet crystal chips (optional)
- Carrier oil, such as fractionated coconut oil or sweet almond oil
Instructions
Combine essential oils in a 10 mL roller bottle. Add crystal chips if desired. Top off with a neutral carrier oil and affix the roller top. Swirl gently to combine.

Revive
Looking to rekindle an old romance? Or maybe you are feeling blue and need a little pick-me-up. This blend includes several essential oils to add some perk to your Valentine’s Day!
Ingredients
- 10 drops tangerine
- 4 drops lavender
- 3 drops lime
- 3 drops spearmint
- 2 drops frankincense
- Aventurine crystal chips (optional)
- Carrier oil, such as fractionated coconut oil or sweet almond oil
Instructions
Combine essential oils in a 10 mL roller bottle. Add crystal chips if desired. Top off with a neutral carrier oil and affix the roller top. Swirl gently to combine.
Enjoy these essential oil blends for love this Valentine’s Day or any time you need to open the lines of communication and connection with yourself or your loved ones. The roller bottles I used come from Whimsy and Wellness, and this collection is designed for Enneagram type 8. Come find the bottles for your type here!